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Monday, July 27, 2009 at 12:10PM 
Good At Something
by ALMIE ROSE
I have two types of guys. The first guy is very easy to describe; he's a tall, skinny, rocker type (but a rocker more in the vein of Pulp than Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers).
The other type has been harder for me to describe. He's a nerdier type of man — but not the kind who is into World of Warcraft or any of that weird digital hocus pocus shit. I ain't into that. He's also not so nerdy that his social life consists of him watching films about other nerdy guys all weekend. He's the kind of guy who's cute, dresses well but not so well that you'd mistake him for a GQ model (or stylist), and is creative and good at...something.
In short, as I discovered today, he is Joseph Gordon-Levitt's character in (500) Days of Summer.
I have never been aboard the JG-L train. I see the appeal, I'm just not going to buy a ticket. Maybe this is because I'm bummed that I missed out on my chance to ask him to prom (and this story isn't as juicy as it sounds, trust me. He was best friends with a relative of mine whose mom suggested that I ask him, but he was in Harvard or whever really smart good looking actors spend their time when they're not working.
Also how was he to know I would turn into a total babe? I mean, this is what my mom tells me.)
But like the sudden 90s revival, it's all starting to come together. Spoiler alert for (500) Days of Summer: JOSEPH GORDON-LEVITT'S CHARACTER IS ADORABLE!!!! THERE IS NOT ONE PART IN THE FILM IN WHICH HE IS NOT ADORABLE!!! IF THERE WAS A SCENE OF HIM TAKING A DUMP IT WOULD BE THE MOST TOUCHING DUMP SCENE IN THE HISTORY OF CINEMA!!! THERE IS NO SCENE LIKE THAT AT ALL, I DON'T KNOW WHY MY MIND WENT THERE, I'M REALLY SORRY EVERYBODY!!! LET'S JUST ALL WALK QUIETLY BACK TO OUR CARS, DRIVE HOME, AND PRETEND THAT THIS NEVER HAPPENED! WHY SHOULD THE POLICE COME? NOBODY'S CALLED THEM.
The thing is, ladies, Joseph Gordon-Levitt's character exists in the real world; he just doesn't look like Joseph Gordon-Levitt.
In fact I have a guy friend who basically is Joseph Gordon-Levitt's character. But he's like 8 feet tall, kind of chubby, and doesn't wear argyle sweaters. So he's basically screwed. Because all around him his female friends are bemoaning the lack of men as sweet and understanding as Joseph Gordon-Levitt's character when he wants to shout, "BITCHES I'M RIGHT HERE" but he never would, exactly BECAUSE he is as sweet and understated as Joseph Gordon-Levitt's character.
So what the fuck is he supposed to do? What is any of us supposed to do? What is Joseph Gordon-Levitt supposed to do? Now he's got straight-up Lloyd Dobler syndrome where every woman he meets is going to think that he's his character. But wait, fuck him, it's 20-something adorably nerdy men types who should be pissed because now we, 20-something future Annie Halls, are going to superimpose his character on every adorably nerdy man we meet, and be totally bummed out when we realize that he's not him, even though we know he won't be, because it's all fiction anyway.
In short, we need to never EVER see movies again. WE NEED TO BURN THE MOVIES BEFORE THEY BURN US.
That or just stick to skinny rockers.
Almie Rose is a contributor to This Recording. She blogs here.
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Reader Comments (10)
So it is an epidemic, then. What i thought was the story of my life is actually a universal problem. This is both reassuring and a blow to my massive ego. Is it really too much to ask for a hybrid skinny rocker/gentle nerd type who isn't a vacuous, hard-drinking hipster? Really?
If you haven't (but I'm sure you have), you must read Chapter 1 of Chuck Klostermann's Sex Drugs and Cocoa Puffs about how he blames John Cusack in Say Anything for destroying America's expectations in relationships. Poor John Cusack. At least JG-L doesn't have a squishy face.
Coincidentally, I just wrote a post about Zooey Deschanel! If life were a romantic comedy, we would be soulmates.
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I really like your brain, keep the posts coming!
lmao this whole thing is fact.
please no more about 500 days of summer.
Where are those photographs from?
This is a late comment, but my excuse is that 500 Days of Summer just opened here last Wednesday. I don't really have anything to say except, "WORD UP ON THE LLOYD DOBLER SYNDROME." Also, I agree with most of this post. I hope your friend finds an awesome girlfriend.
Wanted to say that I girls shouldn't lose hope. There are guys like that in the world. God knows I am one. Don't want you girls giving up your romantic hopes now! It's very important to keep that; I think so anyway. Maybe I watch to many movies like this one but I stand by JGL's character's ideals. I really believe there has to be someone like Zooey (With maybe a little Audrey Hepburn thrown in, if that is at all possibly) out there for guys like me. It's kind of annoying how all the guys I know now don't give a damn about romance and actually think cheating is almost normal. At least girls aren't giving in to the Much Music world. Thanks for that.
I think I have Zooey Syndrome
Guys who are sweet and understanding and KNOW they are sweet and understanding are just as irritating as guys who are good looking and KNOW they are good looking. Good traits have become gimmicks.
Most modern women want a man who is totally unaware of himself: sweet, sensitive and good looking but oblivious of all three.
I wish there was a way for me to find out what kind of guy you're describing.
Without watching that movie of course...